What I’ve observed in the dating world is that there are three main categories of attraction: financial, physical, and chemistry.
Financial basically means how well off you want your potential mate to be.
Physical is attractive based solely on a person’s looks.
Personality is the kinks and quirks of someone’s behavior.
I’ll be going into more depth on the series as time allows.
However, allow me to explain my rule of 3 Sevens.
In order for a person to be attracted to another, they must score at minimum a 7 on all three fronts.
That is that you must score them at least a seven on physical, financial, and chemistry.
Anything less is doomed to failure.
To move forward into the relationship, however, you must score an 9 or 10 in at least one of the categories.
Suppose you are a 7 in financial. Well, then you would have to be a 9 or 10 in physical or chemistry.
Got fat pockets that make you a 10 but can’t figure out why no one wants to be with you…
Well, how about the fact that you are a 5 in physical or just a 6 in chemistry.
You have to be a minimum of a 7 in all three categories!!!
Now, the tricky part is that the qualifications for being a 7 can vary from person to person.
However, most people at least want someone at or above their current level.
Very few are looking to downgrade.
Be the best you that you can be.
Have your finances in order or have a solid (legal and ethical) plan to improve them.
Present a well-dressed appearance that is likely to appeal to the type of mate that you desire.
And chemistry…well, that is up to God.
Do those other too and let Him take care of the rest.